Each year, good divorce week shines a light on how separating couples can manage divorce in a more positive, respectful way.

Is a good divorce even possible?

It sounds counterintuitive to have a good divorce because we’re taught to believe divorce is a bad thing, except it doesn’t have to be. Not every marriage will last and that’s not always a bad thing, but when you’re in the middle of a divorce it can feel like an overwhelmingly negative thing. It can often come with feelings of shame, anger and regret which generally don’t speak to divorce being a good thing.

Good divorce week is about making divorces feel easier, more manageable and reducing the negative feelings to help move forward in a positive way. It means reaching a fair outcome for everyone, communicating respectfully, and protecting any children involved in the fallout of conflict.

What does a good divorce look like?

• Keeping communication constructive and respectful.
• Avoiding drawn-out, expensive negotiations and court proceedings where possible.
• Reaching fair financial arrangements.
• Allowing both partners to move forward with dignity.

When children are involved in a divorce it also includes:

• Protecting children from emotional distress.
• Agreeing appropriate child custody arrangements.

If you want a good divorce, call us today for a free half hour where we can explore your options.

How do you have a good divorce?

Even if you and your ex haven’t parted on good terms it doesn’t always mean a good divorce is out of reach. Here are some practical ways to achieve a more positive separation:

1. Get a free half hour call with a family solicitor

Even if things are amicable, it’s vital to understand your rights and responsibilities from the start. Our free half hour calls are designed to give you initial guidance on what options are available and can help you explore your options, including mediation or collaborative divorce , and ensure you make informed decisions.

2. Communicate clearly

Open and honest communication reduces misunderstandings and helps you find solutions more quickly. It’s not always possible to talk directly if things aren’t amicable and in those cases you can either work with a mediator or a divorce solicitor who can talk for you.  

3. Explore alternative dispute resolution and non-court options

Court is rarely a pleasant experience and when possible, we recommend avoiding it as you’re then in the hands of the judge and you may not always like the outcome. There are other options like mediation, arbitration or collaborative law that can be faster, less stressful and more cost-effective.

You can learn about what each option means in our article on alternatives to court in a divorce. In our team we have Juliet a trained mediator and Toby and Samantha who are both collaboratively trained solicitors. You can speak to Juliet, Toby and Sam about mediation and collaborative law in your free half hour call to understand what each option entails.

When court is the best option

Not everyone can avoid court. Often court is needed when one half of the couple won’t co-operate, there are safety concerns, or the financial arrangements are complicated or assets are being hidden. Our role is to support you through the court process and represent your best interests to a judge. Our focus is to get you the best possible outcome and we’ve seen a lot of separations so we’re well suited to help minimise conflict and reduce tensions.

4. Be honest about your financial situation

Financial negotiations in a divorce can get very messy and complicated and is often the part that causes the most contention. Having your finances in order and ready to share with your solicitor is really helpful as it gets things out in the open early on and can be tackled head on.

Being open from the start will make things easier and also quicker as there is no need to go digging around for hidden information. Our solicitors guide you through disclosure requirements and help ensure a fair settlement that secures your long-term interests.

5. Keep focused on the future

Divorce can take a long time; final orders are taking an average of 69 weeks. It can feel drawn out and frustrating at the best of times, but it’s important to remember that you’re working towards your next chapter and that this will end.

What is good divorce week?

Resolution created the good divorce week to encourage constructive divorces. They’re a national organisation of family professionals who believe divorce doesn’t have to be better fighting and court appearances. The aim is to promote how a “good divorce” is a possibility, when handled with the right approach and support. It focuses on helping couples and families find better ways to separate, without unnecessary conflict or cost.

Why good divorces matter

Good divorce week is about changing the way people think about separation. It encourages individuals and families to seek expert legal advice early, explore constructive solutions, and remember that divorce doesn’t have to mean hostility.

By choosing a supportive, solution-focused family law solicitor, you can take control of the process and find a better way forward.

Need Advice from a Divorce Lawyer?

If you’re considering separation or currently going through a divorce, our experienced divorce lawyers are here to help.
We’ll guide you through every step with clear advice, practical support and an emphasis on achieving the best possible outcome — for you and your family.

Contact us today to arrange a confidential free half hour consultation with one of our team.