Not all family matters will require court involvement, and the court encourages alternative dispute resolution methods. Some alternative options for resolving issues include:

• Mediation: involves working through any points of disagreement with the support of a trained mediator. The mediator will allow everyone the chance to have their views heard. They aren't there to take sides or advise you, and it isn't the same as counselling. Their objective is to ensure that any discussions remain focused on the session's goal and maintain fairness for both parties.
• Alternative dispute resolution: If mediation isn't an option, we can negotiate on your behalf to draw up an agreement.
• Arbitration: similar to family court, but instead of a judge, it is overseen by an impartial arbitrator who makes the final decision. This method gives you more control as you decide on the arbitrator, where the meeting will take place, and what the focus will be. At the end of arbitration, the decision given is legally binding, so you have to follow what they decide. Arbitration isn't available for legal aid clients, but if you can afford it, it is often a much quicker process.
• Collaborative approach: Each person appoints their own collaboratively trained lawyer and meets in person to work through your separation. We are by your side throughout the process, meaning you always have our advice and support. If needed, we can bring in others to help move the discussions forward positively, including independent financial advisers, family consultants, a child specialist or an accountant. Everyone signs an agreement that commits them to resolving your separation through the collaborative process, so we are all committed to finding the best outcome.

Court is the final option when all other methods of resolution have failed or have been assessed as unsuitable. Our family solicitors will always aim for the least stressful, most efficient way to resolve your family issues and consider court only when it is necessary.

The role of the court in family law is to make decisions when couples can't agree on issues, including child custody, financial settlements, and more. Here's a simple breakdown:

• Final say: the court is often the final authority when parties can't come to an agreement through negotiation, mediation or other means.
• Legal framework: the court applies the law so everyone is treated fairly. This can include dividing assets or determining care arrangements for children.
• Dispute resolution: courts resolve disagreements. If you and the other party are stuck, the court will step in and make a decision based on the evidence presented.
• Protection: in situations involving domestic violence or child abuse, the court can issue protective orders to keep you or your children safe.
• Enforcement: once a decision is made, the court can make sure that the arrangement is adhered to, with legal consequences if it is not.
• Urgent cases: in urgent or extreme situations, such as your safety or the safety of a child being at risk, the court can make 'emergency' decisions to provide immediate protection.
• Review and modification: life changes and court orders may need updating. The courts can review and modify arrangements such as spousal maintenance or custody based on new circumstances.

So, while many family issues can be resolved without going to court, the court serves as a critical safety net to maintain fair treatment, resolve disputes and provide protection when needed. At Switalskis, our solicitors will guide you through the court process if it becomes necessary, making sure you know what to expect every step of the way.

How long a family law case takes depends on what you're dealing with. Each situation varies, but here are some general timeframes:

• Divorce: this could take a few months to several years, depending on the complexity. Generally, if both sides agree on all the details, it will be a quicker process.
• Child custody: the court can approve plans quickly if both parents can agree on the care arrangements for the children. If not, it could take several months to resolve.
• Financial settlements: sorting out who gets what can take time. You may have to consider mediation or wait for a court date, which can add months to your timeline.
• Adoption: this is a lengthy process, often taking more than a year. There are lots of checks and evaluations to make sure the child is going to a safe and loving home.
• Domestic violence cases: these can be more urgent. Courts are usually quick to issue protective orders, sometimes on the same day you apply.
• Prenuptial agreements: If you're arranging finances before marriage, it usually takes a few weeks to a couple of months just be sure to allow enough time before the big day.
• Unmarried couple disputes: this could take a few months to several years, depending on the complexity of the situation. If both sides are able to agree on things, it will be a quicker process.

Start as early as you can and keep in touch with your solicitor regularly. We’ll give you a more accurate idea of timings based on your specific situation. And remember, at Switalskis, we aim to make this process as smooth and speedy as we can.

Family law can be complex. At Switalskis, our team of family law solicitors are familiar with every situation. We aim to break down the legal jargon and make things as simple as possible. Whatever your situation, we'll support you along the way, and give you expert guidance to understand your rights.

There is no automatic legal right for grandparents to have contact with their grandchildren. However, UK family courts do acknowledge the significant role grandparents play in a grandchild's life. In some cases, permission may be granted by the courts for grandparents to apply for child arrangement orders so that they can spend time with their grandchildren, provided there is no record of abuse, violence or neglect.